It is duality to explain on the life for Chinese native culture which means not only paying attention to the existence of the natural life， but also pursuing the eternity of the spirit life. The death means the end of the natural life and contains the eternity of the spirit life as well. When the natural life and spirit life cannot be obtained at same time， we need to endure humiliation to beg for the existence of the natural life in order to carry out the greater value of the life， or give up the individual natural life in order to ask the eternity of the spirit life and existence the natural life.